Now that you’ve decided to take the plunge and pop the biggest question of your life, it’s time to stop for a second and make sure all your bases are covered. Before following through with your decision, review this list to make sure you are completely prepared to get down on one knee.
1. Be Sure of Her Answer First
If you don’t have a clue about whether the answer will be yes or no, you shouldn’t propose yet. This can be an expensive and embarrassing mistake. Casually bring up the idea of marriage and children at an appropriate time or pay attention to what she has to say about other people’s marriages. Most women don’t have a problem letting you know when they’re ready for a lifelong commitment.
2. Choose the Perfect Ring
Because this ring will serve as the symbol of your love and commitment–and she’ll want to show it off to friends and family–choosing the right engagement ring is crucial. If you don’t already know what she likes, spend some time window shopping together. For a truly impressive ring that fits your budget, get creative with your shopping venues. Many people find beautiful engagement rings on eBay.
3. Plan the Proposal
Before you go any further, know how you will propose. This is a story your bride will be telling your grandchildren. Spend a few minutes and put some effort into coming up with a creative way that will make that story worth telling.
4. Be Prepared for Anything
Because an engagement ring can be a big investment, it’s great to know you’re prepared for anything. With a great insurance policy or a rider on your home-owner’s or renter’s policy, you’ll never have to worry about:
- Your best man losing the ring
- A thief breaking in and stealing the ring
- Your bride dropping the ring down the drain
- Either one of you tossing the ring into the ocean during a spat (It could happen!)
5. Keep it on the Down Low
Face it: Everyone has a friend with a big mouth. To make sure you surprise your bride-to-be, keep your plans a complete secret or know who you can trust.
6. Decide How You’ll Celebrate and Tell Everyone
After she says yes, you’ll both want to tell everyone and throw an engagement party. Allow her to tell her best girlfriends, her parents, and her sisters in her own time, but take some of the pressure off her by deciding on the perfect way to celebrate with your bigger circle of friends and family. Of course, you should double check to make sure she agrees with your ideas before carrying out your party plans.
Being prepared before popping the question is the best way to make sure everything goes smoothly. How will you propose?


















